Elder and Community Mediation

Why Elder Mediation Is Better Than Court

• Respectful & Dignified – Focuses on preserving family relationships while addressing sensitive issues of aging.

• Less Stressful – Private, compassionate, and designed to reduce conflict rather than escalate it.

• Faster & Cost-Effective – Resolves disputes without lengthy and expensive legal proceedings.

• Family-Focused – Helps families navigate decisions about care, housing, medical treatment, or finances without destroying trust.

• Confidential – Keeps personal family matters private.

How to Prepare

• Identify Concerns – Think about care needs, finances, living arrangements, and wishes for the future.

• Gather Information – Bring documents related to healthcare, estate, or finances.

• Listen with Empathy – Be ready to hear and respect differing perspectives.

• Keep the Elder’s Voice Central – Mediation ensures the elder’s preferences and dignity remain at the heart of decisions.

What to Expect

1. Introduction – The mediator explains the process and emphasizes respect and confidentiality.

2. Joint Session – Family members and stakeholders share perspectives.

3. Caucuses (Open & Closed) – Safe opportunities to speak privately or together, easing tension and allowing creative problem-solving.

4. Negotiation & Solutions – Families explore practical and compassionate options.

5. Agreement – A written agreement may be reached to clarify responsibilities and decisions

Why Community Mediation Is Better Than Court

• Accessible & Affordable – Provides a local, low-cost way to resolve disputes.

• Prevents Escalation – Avoids conflicts turning into lawsuits, violence, or long-term hostility.

• Builds Relationships – Strengthens neighborhoods and communities through dialogue.

• Neutral & Respectful – Everyone gets a fair chance to be heard.

• Confidential – Issues are handled privately, not in public view.

How to Prepare

• Define Concerns – Be clear about the issues and desired outcomes.

• Bring Information – Documents, photos, or other relevant materials if helpful.

• Stay Open-Minded – Listen, compromise, and be willing to build solutions together.

• Think About the Future – Focus on restoring peace, not dwelling on the past.

What to Expect

1. Introduction – The mediator explains the process and establishes ground rules.

2. Joint Session – Participants share perspectives and goals.

3. Caucuses (Open & Closed) – Private conversations allow parties to speak more freely and reduce tension.

4. Negotiation & Solutions – The mediator helps parties explore creative, practical options.

5. Agreement – A written agreement or informal understanding is reached to restore harmony.