Why Mediation Is Better Than Court

• More Control – Instead of a judge deciding for you, you and the other party shape the outcome together.

• Less Stressful – The process is private, informal, and focused on problem-solving, not winning or losing.

• Faster & Cheaper – Mediation usually takes weeks, not months or years, and avoids costly courtroom battles.

• Better for Families – Especially in divorce and custody cases, mediation reduces conflict and helps preserve relationships, which benefits children.

• Confidential – Unlike a court case, what you discuss in mediation stays private.

How to Prepare

• Think About Priorities – Know what matters most to you (children, finances, property, peace of mind).

• Bring Key Information – Financial documents, schedules, and any agreements or proposals.

• Be Open-Minded – Come ready to listen, compromise, and consider creative solutions.

• Focus on the Future – Mediation is about moving forward, not relitigating the past.

What to Expect

1. Introduction – The mediator explains the process, sets ground rules, and emphasizes confidentiality.

2. Joint Session – Both parties meet together to share perspectives, concerns, and goals.

3. Caucuses (Session Meetings)

   • We operate with open and closed caucuses, based-on and dependent on both parties comfort and agreement.

     • Open Caucus – Both parties may step aside with the mediator to focus on a specific issue in more detail.

     • Closed (Private) Caucus – Each party can also meet privately with the mediator. What is said in a closed caucus stays confidential unless you allow it to be shared.

   • Benefits – Caucuses give participants a safe space to speak openly, reduce stress, and allow the mediator to explore creative solutions that can later be brought back to the joint session.

4. Negotiation & Problem-Solving – Guided by the mediator, parties explore options and work toward common ground.

5. Agreement – If resolution is reached, the mediator drafts a written Mediated Settlement Agreement that is binding and enforceable.

Family & Divorce Mediation:

What You Need to Know